I read that column. Yesterday, (April 3) he had a better column on weight gain in a marriage.

I am in the “Las Vegas Losers” and gained weight this month. Ugh! In 2004, I lost 60 lbs and have now put every pound plus a few back on. I gotta say even though the way I look bothers me, it does not bother me as much as the way I feel.

I have numerous health problems that I did not have 60, even 20 pounds ago. The fact that it makes my heart overbeat and I can’t catch my breathe getting in bed is why I am striving to lose weight. Therefore, I am trying to remain focused on the life benefits of weight-loss not the cosmetic.